Thursday, February 24

Fighting in front of friends...

It seems that there is a lot of bitchiness going on in the air.....(NO!!! Not you folks with the blogs. I could care less about that crap!) I am talking about first my sisters.... WATCHOUT. They are both in psycho bad moods and have been for the last few days.
Last night I ended up getting into an argument with Amy in front of our friend Martha... Amy got pissed at me about YYY Topic. (Sorry I can't tell more but there are some things about my personal life that I need to keep off the internet!) Normally, not a problem and I would blow it off. But Martha was over and Amy proceeded to freak out at me in front of her...So, we go into our room. I tried to smooth things over and well we all know how well that can work when someone is pissed off. I, being the not so calm and rational person that I am get upset and we are in each other's faces. It isn't until 10 minutes into the yelling that I remember that Martha is sitting in our living room trying to act like nothing is happening. Amy yells at me to "Fuck off" and says she is going to bed. I slam the door and go about watching the rest of Project Runway with Martha. (mind you, Martha has been our friend for over 7 years apiece...she knew each of us seperately before she knew us as a couple.)
Most of the time, as with last night, we can get it out of our systems and we are done. We wake up in the morning (in the same bed)...still a little upset but okay. We will make it to year number 6.

Martha and I meet up for coffee after I get off work. I get there first. I am sitting there working on my STUPID Calypso top that is never finshing.... and we talk about what we are drinking and then she "splats" it out... "Are you going to break up with Amy now?" WHERE IN THE HELL DID THIS COME FROM?????? This is not the first time she has seen us get into a fight and of course it probably won't be the last time...She proceeds to tell me that we just aren't meant for each other and that we are hurting each other emotionally more and more each day and that there is no reason for us to be together. WHERE DID THIS COME FROM????? Of course, me being in the tired and grumpy mood I am after being on my feet for the last 6 hours of my shift at work I am not in the mood to argue but of course I am in the mood to make snide comments... What was the comment you ask?
"Martha you are one to talk about healthy relationships...... I am not the one who got kicked out of her apartment because of her boyfriend and then takes him back two months later and proceeds to take advantage of him for almost a year.... to "get him back"..."

Needless to say the evening ended quite quickly after that. I shouldn't have said it but I did, I will probably call her later tonight and work it out but it makes me wonder about what is going on in the air. It is total cat fight time..

I am developing a theory on this bitchiness that is going around, at least here in Phoenix. Normally, our spring begins now, the time for love in the air, our animal instincts for affection and love, for nurturing and mothering and all sorts of other womanly goodness are supposed to going on right now... and folks do we see any spring going on? NOPE. Nothing but rain rain rain and more rain. So, I think that nature wrecked our emotions and psychological wellness and putting us all into a funk... I am looking forward to a few good days with out rain...They say it is supposed to be at least until Tuesday but we will see what happens.

Happy Knitting and Happy Hoping for Spring...

8 comments:

Pam said...

I've noticed this too. I think the rain has caused the bitchy trees to flower, allowing the bitchy pollen to float among the valley residents, creating (you guessed it) general bitchiness.

Rain, rain go away.

Jack said...

It's not just here either. The bitchiness spreads across the country like wildfire.

I'm generally a bitchy person though, so it doesn't change me much.

Hope things get better for you. It's always hard when your friends are getting involved in your relationship - never a good mix.

Jen said...

Yep, its definitely in the air. I'm sure things will work out. As for long-time friends being involved in your relationship, I have a little expertise in that area. Don't worry, only you and Amy know what is good for you and Amy.

I hope we can get together soon too. Miss you, you always make me laugh!

illanna said...

I'm so sorry to hear about all that. I got this book that's all about knitting as being soothing. Maybe forget about everything with a quick pair of socks to lift your spirits. Speaking of socks, I have your pattern and I'll scan it tonight and send it if you'd like :) Hope things get brighter for you!

Elisa said...

The weather has a huge effect on our moods - I was still living in California in 1998 during El Nino, and you've never seen so many sad and mopey Californians as you did that year. I was trying to figure out why everyone was acting so strangely when I realized that in California we're all used to having sunshine A LOT of the time, and the lack of that made everyone feel morose. Once the sun came back, all was well again!

I'm sending positive thoughts of spring your way today...

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